Welcome everyone! This is my first post, I’m still learning, but in time I will be much better.
Everyone has a soul that’s on a journey. Their human incarnation is what many believe they are [i.e. their race, sex, body shape, hair, etc] which then shapes the person [their personality] they believe they are, but the outer shell is just that, the outer shell. The shell is here to help you learn the lesson that leads you to your blessings. If you miss out on the lesson then you will miss out on your blessings [an unfulfilled existence here on earth, always struggling and complaining, seeing life as empty with lack and limitations]. Please get the lesson so that your life on earth is a Blessing.