I was just listening to the song “I Am Ready For Love” by India Arie and the thought occurred to me, how many people are truly ready for love. We may “say” that we’re ready but do our actions support our words? In order to receive Love from outside of ourselves we must first show love to ourselves. If you treat yourself unkindly such as: placing yourself last in most situations; beating yourself up for something you did or didn’t do; rejecting compliments by showcasing your inadequacies; or simply just not seeing the beauty in You. All of these actions, fueled by your thinking, creates the environment that you’re not worthy of Love. And so NO LOVE will appear, NONE. You really have to show Love to yourself in order to receive Love from others.
AGREED what you will end up attracting is the exact same energy you carry, someone who will treat you unkindly, someone who may not sincerely compliment you without a motive, maybe someone who doesn’t value you because you don’t value you….a mirror of yourself.